When things happen, people need to vent. Without providing details, and by being as vague as possible, people will vent and expose their vulnerability to you. During those times, just... Be there. Be there without all the prying and questions with intentions as dirty as some hearts.

This broke my heart.

...Sigh.

Being a public figure doesn't make it your obligation to expose anything and everything about yourself. Being a public figure doesn't mean that you should stop being human, and stop being regarded as one.

One doesn't show concern through asking for details even when you know we can't---it hurts too much. That kind of concern is nosiness and cruelty, only for gratifying your own hungry thirst of curiosity, or the sense of feeling like you have contributed and helped out during one's roughest times, when in fact, you haven't.

You have only become part of what made those times rough.

How cruel it is of these people to say of these things in that way, in that twisted way of mutilating her intentions and true personality... When it is her personal life to keep and her personal secrets to share, or likewise, not to share.

How cruel.

Now she can't be as open in the future.
Now she can't have her safe place any longer.
Trust---in a person, in a community, in humanity---crumbles once it's breached.
Time is no matter at all; what really matters and what really can only matter is how easily trust will break once betrayal in every sense occurs. Faith, hope, and forgiveness has nothing to do with this.
You break trust, you break something once that you can never ever mend. Ever.

It can only be rebuilt.

Things will change.

And it will be irreversible. For good, or for bad.


I really hope she will be okay
She will,
But you know...

Yeah.
You get me.

Poor Lindy  :'(