Sunday, 1 March 2015

Marriage

Bubzvlogz :D

^ I love her.
Every vlog is just so full of positivity that it lifts your mood whenever you watch it.
Even if you were already in a good mood, this vlog channel never fails to make it even better.
So yeah. Check it out if you haven't already :)
You won't regret it ;)

Isaac is the cutest thing ever and I'm always checking the channel for new videos
The one the link brings you to is by far my favorite... Hehe

How do I put it... Puberty has made me slightly dreamy
And this vlog is the embodiment of how I want my family to be: simple, warm, and simply adorbz ^~^

"Parenting is being exactly what you want your kids to be. Don't want them to be disrespectful? Respect your partner and everyone else. Don't swear, shout, or hit your partner even if you are really upset. Want them to do the chores? Do the housework together and never, ever let one party shoulder it all. Want them to not take out negative emotions on you? Don't do it to your partner or the kids. PMS-ing is not as excuse; it's just you taking your partner for granted. Love's expiry date is not an excuse; its you no longer treasuring your partner as an individual, and expecting the love from him/her without wanting to give back."
Of course, marriage causes love to run out, alike to a pot of porridge. The top is sweet and delicious, but when you get to the bottom, there's only the charred bits left. After all, love isn't all and can never be all. It doesn't last forever, and therefore there must be standing values and principles that lasts till your last breath.
Conflicts are inevitable, but ultimately, your anger musn't cause you to hurt the other party, either verbally or physically. It's okay to fight now and again, but if you are constantly squabbling and shouting over the smallest of things... It's terrible, since now it's a case of respect.
You are fighting because you don't value her feelings as much. You are shouting, due to your stress, yes, but also cause you know she won't ever leave you because of it, and you are taking advantage of it.
You don't respect her anymore.

Marriage isn't as beautiful as dramas paint it out to be.
And yes, as young as I am, as weird as it makes me to contemplate about marriage at this stage of my life...

I have been hearing quite a bit of shouting these days...
And it's pretty unsettling.

Spoke up, but it's scary.

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