Sunday, 12 April 2015

Hoping to find that one person. I have a feeling you are. But is there a chance for us to get to that stage of discussion?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=k0qbZttt0lw

Gurl
That confidence is sexy as hell

Such great music
Such a talented woman
Clean, sophisticated, varied, sexy, meaningful, catchy

"I am not the prettiest you've ever seen, but I have my moments, I have my moments."
"Not the flawless one have never been, but I have my moments, I have my moments."
"I can get a little drunk, I get into all the don't, but on good days I am charming as f***."

C'mon.
Expletives' usage determines its meaning
The tone and context makes it 'rude' or 'cool' or 'funny'
So long as it's not over-the-top unnecessary part-of-your-language thing and done to seem 'cool',
It's fine. It's just words. And more often than not, it hurts when thrown at you only because of the intention to hurt. It's the tone. It's the fact that we associate these vulgarities with crude meanings (well, they are) and the fact that they are used with that intented meaning, that hurts.
There are other words that can just be as rude and hurtful, that are not 'vulgarities'.

The fact that light swearing is used to stress on a point is scientifically proven to help you make a impression cuz it makes you seem passionate about what you're speaking about
Huh
Interesting, huh.

There's so many people who think that swearing is cool when it's not.
There's so many people who frown upon it because society does so, too.
There's so many people who teach their children to not swear cuz it's 'wrong'.

I am one of those people.
It is still a process of coming out of that brainwashed shell
It is still a case of how using expletives makes you appear 'bad'
It is still important to not portray that image to society despite your own views

The fact that I had to put asterisks for the song lyrics above shows just how much of a coward I am
For the fact that I wrote this post may come back to affect me in the future
And the fact that society makes people who swear as 'uneducated' and 'crude' people.

Therefore, I shall educate my little brother to not swear.
To appear 'educated' and 'polite', because that's the way society works.
It judges based on 'impressions', and only see what is visible.
Rebellion is sexy and all, but only when done in the right places.
You need to be able to judge what is worth the rebel, and what requires the rebel.

Right now, making sure that this little devil at home doesn't die too many times in the world we live in is of utmost importance, more so that forcing my own views on him, or on anyone, for that matter.

Well, we will all learn, won't we. ;)

I wonder when you realized how certain things were not meant to be said but kept silent about
I wonder when you found out, that honesty was never the best policy if it wasn't what they wanted to hear
I wonder when you learnt, to just smile and nod at certain things, even if you didn't agree with it
Because rebelling, or being honest, would have gotten you nowhere
And that your feelings are irrelevant, and more importantly was to see to it that the issue was resolved, not your feelings.

Like I said, rebelling is nice. It makes you live and not exist.
But rebelling requires position. It requires support. It needs to be about something more meaningful than just rebelling for the sake of it.
And if you voice out certain views without said criteria,
You will set yourself up for dire consequences that will seek you out in the future.
Society ain't that forgiving. :p

There's so much to be said,
But if you know me,
This is hinting at a recent happening

I wonder
Your views on it

I wonder
If one day I will catch someone in that sieve of mine
To talk about said issues behind closed doors

Besides my parents,
I of course am hoping to meet such a person.

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